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And what are you that, wanting you,
I should be kept awake
As many nights as there are days
With weeping for your sake?
And what are you that, missing you,
As many days as crawl
I should be listening to the wind
And looking at the wall?
I know a man that’s a braver man
And twenty men as kind,
And what are you, that you should be
The one man in my mind?
Yet women’s ways are witless ways,
As any sage will tell,—
And what am I, that I should love
So wisely and so well?
Edna St. Vincent Millay, one of the most celebrated poets of the early 20th century, was renowned for her lyrical precision, emotional intensity, and subversion of traditional gender roles. Her poem The Philosopher is a compact yet profound meditation on love, longing, and the irrationality of human desire. Through its interrogative structure, paradoxes, and introspective tone, the poem explores the tension between reason and emotion, questioning why the heart fixates on one beloved despite logical alternatives. This essay will examine The Philosopher through its historical and cultural context, literary devices, thematic concerns, and emotional impact, with particular attention to Millay’s feminist perspective and philosophical undertones.
Millay wrote during the modernist period, a time of radical shifts in literature, gender norms, and societal expectations. The early 20th century saw women increasingly asserting intellectual and sexual autonomy, and Millay—openly bisexual and fiercely independent—embodied this new femininity. The Philosopher reflects this cultural moment, as it challenges traditional romantic tropes where women were expected to be passive in love. Instead, the speaker actively questions her own emotions, demonstrating a self-awareness that borders on philosophical inquiry.
The poem’s title, The Philosopher, is itself significant. Philosophy, traditionally a male-dominated field, is invoked here by a female speaker who dissects her own irrational attachment with analytical precision. This subversion aligns with Millay’s broader defiance of gendered expectations, positioning the female mind as capable of deep intellectual and emotional scrutiny.
The poem is structured around a series of rhetorical questions, creating a tone of relentless self-interrogation:
"And what are you that, wanting you, / I should be kept awake..."
"And what are you, that you should be / The one man in my mind?"
"And what am I, that I should love / So wisely and so well?"
These questions are not meant to be answered but to underscore the futility of rationalizing love. The repetition of "what are you" and "what am I" suggests an existential crisis, where the speaker grapples with the inexplicable nature of desire.
The final stanza introduces a paradox that encapsulates the poem’s central tension:
"Yet women’s ways are witless ways, / As any sage will tell,— / And what am I, that I should love / So wisely and so well?"
Here, Millay employs irony by juxtaposing "witless" (foolish) with "wisely and so well." The speaker acknowledges the societal stereotype that women’s love is irrational, yet she also claims a strange wisdom in her devotion. This paradox suggests that love, though seemingly foolish, contains its own kind of logic—one that defies conventional wisdom.
The poem’s imagery conveys a sense of stagnation and obsession:
"listening to the wind / And looking at the wall"—a haunting depiction of passive suffering.
"kept awake / As many nights as there are days"—hyperbolic yet effective in conveying sleepless fixation.
These images evoke a claustrophobic emotional state, where the beloved’s absence dominates the speaker’s existence.
At its core, The Philosopher interrogates why love persists despite reason. The speaker acknowledges that there are "a braver man / And twenty men as kind," yet her mind fixates on one inexplicable figure. This aligns with classical and Renaissance love poetry (e.g., Petrarch’s sonnets), where the beloved is an irrational obsession. However, Millay’s approach is more self-aware—she does not romanticize this fixation but questions it, exposing its absurdity.
The poem critiques the stereotype that women’s emotions are inherently foolish. By calling herself a "philosopher," the speaker asserts intellectual authority over her own feelings. Yet she also mocks this position—"what am I, that I should love / So wisely and so well?"—implying that even self-awareness does not free her from love’s grip. This duality reflects Millay’s broader feminist critique: women are expected to be either emotional or rational, but never both.
The poem’s desolate imagery—"looking at the wall," "weeping for your sake"—suggests profound isolation. Unlike traditional love poetry, which often idealizes yearning, Millay portrays it as a form of imprisonment. The speaker is trapped not by the beloved’s presence but by her own mind’s inability to move on.
Millay’s poem can be fruitfully compared to other works that explore unrequited or irrational love:
Sappho’s Fragment 31: Like Millay, Sappho describes love as a physical and mental torment, though her focus is more on jealousy.
John Donne’s The Broken Heart: Donne’s metaphysical musings on love’s destructive power parallel Millay’s, though his tone is more theological.
Emily Dickinson’s I Cannot Live With You: Dickinson’s poem similarly examines love as an impossible necessity, though with more religious despair.
Millay’s distinctiveness lies in her fusion of classical lyricism with modernist self-awareness.
From a philosophical standpoint, the poem resonates with:
Pascal’s "The heart has its reasons, which reason does not know"—love operates beyond logic.
Freud’s theories of obsession—the speaker’s fixation mirrors the unconscious mind’s irrational attachments.
Psychologically, the poem captures the paradox of knowing love is irrational yet being unable to escape it.
The Philosopher is a masterful exploration of love’s contradictions—its simultaneous wisdom and folly, its power to enslave even the most rational mind. Millay’s sharp wit, feminist undertones, and existential questioning elevate the poem beyond mere lamentation into a profound meditation on human desire. By framing love as both a philosophical problem and an emotional inevitability, she captures the universal struggle between heart and mind. In doing so, she cements her place as a poet who understood—and articulated—the beautiful absurdity of love.
This poem remains enduringly relevant because it speaks to anyone who has loved against reason, who has questioned why their heart refuses to obey their mind. And in that shared human experience, Millay’s The Philosopher finds its deepest resonance.
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