Love is Best
Wilfrid Scawen Blunt’s “Love is Best” is a compact but remarkably ambitious meditation on love as a power capable of resisting the chief pressures of human existence: destiny, loss, historical change, and mortality. Its apparent simplicity is part of its artistry. The poem speaks in commands, offers a sequence of memorable images, and reaches a conclusion of almost proverbial certainty. Yet beneath this confident surface lies a serious philosophical challenge. What should a person trust when the future is unknowable, when happiness is vulnerable, and when time steadily alters every worldly possession? Blunt’s answer is not that love prevents suffering, nor that it makes the world just. Rather, love gives the individual a way of meeting suffering without surrendering inward freedom. It is an ethic of courageous attachment, an instruction to prize affection above calculation, and an imaginative refusal to let Fate define the meaning of a life.
The opening assertion, “Dare all things for Love’s sake, since love is best,” establishes the poem’s central principle with exceptional directness. “Love is best” sounds at first like a familiar sentimental maxim, but the phrase gains force because it follows the imperative “Dare.” Love is not praised as a pleasant feeling, a private consolation, or a passive reward. It is presented as a reason to risk, to act, and to expose oneself to uncertainty. The word “dare” suggests courage in the face of danger, social disapproval, disappointment, or personal vulnerability. Blunt’s vision of love is therefore active and strenuous. It is not the opposite of difficulty; it is the source of strength by which difficulty may be confronted. The poem’s ideal is not emotional safety but a life animated by devotion.
This emphasis belongs to the broad inheritance of Romantic poetry, in which intense feeling is often understood as a form of knowledge and a source of moral resistance. Like many Romantic writers, Blunt opposes the cold language of necessity with the liberating force of desire, imagination, and personal conviction. Yet his poem is less interested in solitary self-expression than in the discipline of loving. It repeatedly asks the reader to do something: dare, rebuke, remember, knock, offer, watch, worship, seek, know. These verbs transform the lyric into a kind of secular devotional instruction. Love is not simply encountered; it must be pursued, honored, and served. The poem possesses the energetic urgency of a sermon, but its god is not a distant theological abstraction. Its divinity is Love, imagined as a living presence who can be approached, petitioned, and trusted.
Blunt’s historical position helps explain the poem’s mixture of idealism and defiance. Born in 1840, he belonged to a Victorian culture often associated with strict social codes, imperial confidence, religious debate, and increasingly visible tensions between public respectability and private desire. He was not a writer who remained quietly within the expected boundaries of his class or period. A diplomat early in life, he later became an outspoken critic of British imperial policy and an advocate for colonized peoples, especially in Egypt and India. His political commitments reveal a temperament suspicious of inherited authority and alert to the moral claims of freedom. Although “Love is Best” is not a political poem in any narrow sense, its rejection of passive submission to “Fate” resembles Blunt’s larger disposition toward resistance. The poem turns inward, but it retains the language of contest and refusal.
Blunt’s personal life also lends context, though it should not be used to reduce the poem to autobiography. He married Lady Anne Noel, granddaughter of Lord Byron, and his later emotional entanglements, including his relationship with Jane Morris, have encouraged readers to see his love poetry through the lens of a complicated and unconventional private life. Such biographical knowledge illuminates Blunt’s familiarity with desire as a force that may challenge convention, but the poem’s claims are more expansive than any one affair. It does not narrate a particular romance or confess a specific betrayal. Instead, it distills experience into counsel. The speaker has the authority of someone who has known loss and contingency, and who nevertheless chooses to affirm love. That choice is important: the poem’s confidence is not naïve because it is built in explicit opposition to disaster, tears, change, and Time.
The poem’s first great antagonist is “Fate,” a word carrying classical, religious, and philosophical associations. Fate may suggest the impersonal structure of events, the apparent inevitability of suffering, or the social and historical conditions that limit individual choice. Blunt gives this abstraction a sharply human character when he describes its “niggard ways unblest.” Fate is personified as mean, withholding, and ungenerous. The phrase is deliberately severe: fate does not merely fail to provide happiness but appears miserly in its distribution of blessing. By imagining Fate as a parsimonious power, the poem refuses to dignify adversity as inherently wise or morally deserved. There is no easy doctrine here that everything happens for a benevolent reason. Fate is instead a force whose harshness can be recognized and reproached.
The command “Of Fate ask nothing” is therefore not an invitation to despair. It is an invitation to withdraw one’s hopes from an unreliable authority. The next phrase, “rather by your deeds / Rebuke it,” replaces pleading with action. This is one of the poem’s most compelling reversals. The reader is instructed not to negotiate with destiny, not to wait for favorable circumstances, and not to judge life solely by what fortune grants. One rebukes Fate through “deeds”: through the practical enactment of courage, loyalty, generosity, and love. Blunt’s argument resembles an ethical philosophy of agency. Human beings cannot control all outcomes, but they can choose the values according to which they act. Love becomes powerful not because it magically abolishes misfortune, but because it prevents misfortune from having the final authority over the self.
That perspective differs significantly from fatalism. A fatalistic speaker might accept hardship as unavoidable and counsel emotional resignation. Blunt, by contrast, advocates a kind of passionate stoicism. He recognizes that life contains forces beyond command, but he refuses to let those forces determine what deserves reverence. There is a distant affinity here with the Stoic distinction between external events and inward judgment, though Blunt’s language is warmer and more personal than Stoic detachment usually permits. He does not advise the reader to become invulnerable by desiring less. He advises the reader to love more boldly. The poem’s solution to transience is not withdrawal from attachment, but attachment strong enough to bear the knowledge of transience. This is one reason its emotional appeal remains so immediate.
The second movement deepens this argument by turning from action to memory: “Remember in the shade of the new years / Only what Love has given.” The phrase “new years” evokes the succession of time, the arrival of fresh seasons, and the strange mixture of hope and melancholy that accompanies renewal. Every new beginning casts a “shade,” because the future carries uncertainty and because each passing year reminds us of what has already vanished. Blunt’s response is neither to deny the shadow nor to immerse oneself in it. He advises a selective, loving act of remembrance. The gifts of love should become the material from which one builds one’s inward life. Memory is here not a passive archive but a moral practice: one chooses what to preserve.
This instruction can seem at first to advocate forgetfulness, especially when the speaker says to remember “only what Love has given.” Yet the poem is subtler than a simple demand to ignore pain. The reference to “tears” confirms that sorrow is real and anticipated. Love’s gifts do not erase grief; they become a “safeguard” against being overwhelmed by it. The word “dole” is particularly rich. In older usage, it can mean one’s allotted share, often a charitable distribution or portion of sustenance. Love’s remembered gifts become a daily portion, a spiritual ration sufficient to sustain the self. The image suggests modest but essential nourishment. Love is not imagined as perpetual ecstasy. It is the dependable store of meaning that remains available when joy is no longer immediate.
Blunt’s treatment of time is one of the poem’s most resonant features. “Change and Time’s inconstancy” are presented as enemies of stability, but the poem does not claim that human beings can literally stop them. Time changes bodies, relationships, fortunes, nations, and convictions. The speaker’s language acknowledges this instability with unusual frankness. What love offers is not immunity from alteration but an ability to “outwit” it. To outwit is not to overpower; it is to respond intelligently to an adversary’s strength. Love outwits time by making certain experiences inwardly durable. A moment of devotion may pass in chronological terms, but its significance can continue through recollection, influence, and the transformed character of the person who has loved. In this sense, love becomes an art of preserving value without pretending that the physical world does not decay.
The poem’s transition to “Knock loudly at Love’s door” changes the emotional temperature. The earlier commands have considered Fate and memory in grave, almost philosophical terms. Now the language becomes vivid, ceremonial, and domestic. Love has a door; he is “awake”; he can receive visitors and offerings. This personification draws on a long tradition in European poetry in which Love appears as a deity, a lord, a youth, or a commanding sovereign. Classical Cupid, medieval courtly love, Renaissance allegory, and Christian devotional language all hover behind Blunt’s figure. Yet the emphasis on knocking “loudly” prevents the image from becoming merely decorative. The lover must not approach timidly. Love requires announcement, initiative, and perhaps the willingness to disturb one’s own caution.
The declaration “He is awake” is wonderfully reassuring. Love is not absent, dead, or indifferent. The image counters a common fear embedded in romantic experience: that one’s devotion will find no answering presence. Blunt does not guarantee that every individual desire will be fulfilled by a particular beloved, but his allegory asserts that Love itself remains available. This distinction allows the poem to speak beyond courtship. Love may include erotic passion, certainly, but it may also encompass friendship, family devotion, compassion, fidelity, and a larger commitment to human connection. The personified “He” should not be read too narrowly as a literal male figure. It is a conventional grammatical and allegorical form, inherited from traditions that represented Love as a masculine god. The poem’s deeper concern is with the energy of loving itself.
“Offer him roses. ’Tis his month of June” introduces imagery that is traditional but emotionally effective. Roses signify beauty, desire, fragrance, tenderness, and the vulnerability of living things. June, often imagined as the height of early summer, suggests ripeness, brightness, and the moment when the natural world seems most generously alive. But the choice of roses also quietly intensifies the poem’s meditation on impermanence. Roses bloom beautifully precisely because they do not last. Their value is inseparable from their fragility. By asking the reader to offer roses to Love, Blunt turns transience into a ritual of devotion. The fading flower does not refute love’s worth; it makes the act of offering more meaningful. Love honors what is temporary without treating it as worthless.
The religious vocabulary of the poem becomes especially explicit in “Do worship for his sake” and “Seek out his service.” These phrases create a paradoxical relationship between devotion and reward. The reader is asked to serve Love, but Love “shall serve you soon.” Such reciprocity is central to the poem’s moral vision. Love is not a selfish appetite that consumes others, nor is it an abstract ideal that demands sacrifice without consolation. It is a mutuality. One gives oneself to love, and love returns strength, shelter, and meaning. The language may recall religious faith, in which devotion transforms the worshipper, but Blunt’s theology is humanly grounded. The blessings of Love are experienced through the acts of care, courage, and remembrance that the poem has already described.
This religious coloring is characteristic of a late nineteenth-century literary atmosphere in which poets often sought forms of spiritual intensity outside, alongside, or in revision of orthodox belief. Victorian Britain was marked by vigorous religious commitment, but also by scientific challenge, biblical criticism, and widespread anxiety about inherited certainties. In such a climate, love and beauty could acquire quasi-sacred force. Writers associated with Aesthetic and Pre-Raphaelite tendencies often treated beauty as an avenue to heightened perception; other poets sought spiritual authority in human sympathy and artistic experience. Blunt’s poem participates in this broad cultural movement, though it is more morally insistent than purely aesthetic. Roses and June are beautiful, but beauty here is not an escape into ornament. It becomes an offering that trains the heart in reverence.
The final declaration that Love “fears not Fate’s disaster” brings the poem’s governing opposition to a climax. Fate has been described as ungenerous, and disaster is now named without euphemism. The word carries the sense of sudden ruin, catastrophe, or the collapse of plans. Love does not deny that disaster occurs; it “fears not” disaster. This is a crucial formulation. The poem does not promise a charmed life. It promises, more daringly, that love can remain meaningful even when circumstances become devastating. Such a claim can be heard in relation to bereavement as much as romance. The person who has loved may grieve intensely, but love itself is not annulled by loss. It survives in memory, in ethical transformation, and in the continuing force of the bond.
The phrase “Answers for both” is perhaps the poem’s most compressed and suggestive statement. In ordinary usage, to answer for someone can mean to stand as a guarantor, to accept responsibility, or to speak on another’s behalf. Love answers for “both”: it becomes the assurance shared by the lover and beloved, or by the self and the uncertain future. The phrase implies that love is relational at its core. It does not simply fortify an isolated individual; it creates a form of mutual accountability. In loving, one’s fate is no longer experienced as wholly solitary. Love bears witness to both persons and makes each answerable to the other. The poem thereby joins emotional intensity to ethical seriousness. Its ideal is not conquest but faithful reciprocity.
When Blunt calls Love “Time’s master,” he invokes a tradition familiar from Shakespearean poetry, where verse, memory, and love are imagined as powers that resist Time’s destructive hand. Yet Blunt’s formulation should not be mistaken for a literal fantasy of immortality. Love masters time by changing the terms on which time is judged. Time can take away youth, beauty, opportunity, and physical presence, but it cannot wholly undo the value of what has been truly given and received. The poem’s earlier emphasis on remembering love’s gifts prepares this conclusion. Love’s mastery is achieved through inward continuity. It is a mastery of meaning rather than chronology, and for that reason it is more psychologically persuasive than a promise that loss can simply be reversed.
Comparisons with other love poetry clarify Blunt’s distinctive voice. Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s celebrated sonnets elevate love into a measure of spiritual being, but their power often arises from introspection and the careful unfolding of private feeling. Blunt is more public and exhortatory: he speaks like an adviser urging a reader toward bravery. Robert Browning’s dramatic explorations of passion frequently emphasize uncertainty, divided motives, and the difficulty of knowing another mind; Blunt offers a more unified creed. His nearest kin may be found in the defiant strain of Byron, whose legacy was personally close through Blunt’s marriage into the Byron family. Yet where Byron often dramatizes alienation, irony, and self-consuming passion, Blunt’s poem is unusually constructive. It does not glorify rebellion for its own sake; it makes rebellion serve devotion.
The poem also offers a useful counterpoint to more melancholic treatments of love and time. In many elegiac traditions, love gains dignity precisely because it cannot defeat death, and the poet dwells on the ache of that limitation. Blunt acknowledges the same human predicament but chooses a rhetoric of confidence rather than lament. This does not make his poem emotionally shallow. On the contrary, its force depends on the reader sensing the pressures against which it speaks: the “tears,” the inconstancy, the disaster. Its brightness is hard-won brightness. The poem asks readers to affirm love not because pain is absent, but because pain makes the need for love more urgent. In that regard, its optimism is ethical rather than merely cheerful.
Formally, the poem’s concentration heightens its authority. The sequence of imperatives gives it a deliberate forward movement, while repeated personification turns large abstractions into dramatic presences. Fate can be rebuked; Time can be outwitted; Love can be awakened, offered flowers, worshipped, and trusted. Such devices make philosophical ideas emotionally tangible. The opposition between the hostile figures of Fate and Time and the benevolent sovereignty of Love provides the poem with a clear symbolic architecture. Blunt’s diction, meanwhile, moves between plain Anglo-Saxon force—“Dare,” “Knock,” “Watch,” “Seek”—and elevated ceremonial language such as “worship,” “safeguard,” and “master.” This blend enables the poem to feel both accessible and ceremonious, like wisdom that has been tested in ordinary life and then shaped into ritual speech.
For modern readers, “Love is Best” may invite questions about idealization. Can love truly answer for both? Can it master time, or shield anyone from grief? A sophisticated reading need not accept these claims as literal guarantees in order to feel their power. The poem is best understood as a declaration of value. It insists that love is worth choosing despite the risks that accompany it. In an age that often prizes self-protection, strategic detachment, and the management of disappointment, Blunt’s exhortation can feel bracing. It reminds us that the avoidance of pain is not the same as the achievement of a meaningful life. To love is to accept exposure to loss, but it is also to acquire the memories, loyalties, and capacities for courage that make life more than a sequence of accidents.
Ultimately, “Love is Best” endures because it speaks with unusual clarity to a permanent human conflict. We know that circumstances change, that fortune disappoints, and that the people and moments we cherish cannot be held outside time. Blunt does not dispute this knowledge. Instead, he asks what force within human experience can meet it without capitulation. His answer is Love: active rather than passive, devotional rather than possessive, courageous rather than complacent. The poem’s emotional impact comes from its refusal to separate tenderness from strength. Roses, tears, service, disaster, memory, and defiance all belong to the same vision. Love is “best” not because it makes existence painless, but because it gives suffering, change, and even mortality an adversary worthy of them.