Forgive and forget

Idiomatic Phrase
Pronunciation

Understanding ARPABET Pronunciation

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The pronunciation guide uses the ARPABET phonetic system—the same system used in speech recognition and text-to-speech applications.

Vowel Examples:
AE1 = cat, bat
EH1 = bed, head
IY1 = see, me
OW1 = go, boat
UW1 = boot, do
Stress Numbers:
0 = no stress (unstressed)
1 = primary stress (loud)
2 = secondary stress (medium)
Example:
AH0 TH IY1 N AH0
= a-THEE-na (Athena)

The stressed syllable (marked with 1) is pronounced louder and clearer than others.

Quick Definition

To completely cease feeling anger and resentment towards someone for a past wrong, choosing to put the offense out of one's mind permanently.

Detailed Definition
Forgive and forget means to release resentment and move beyond an offence, though the phrase can be more aspirational than realistic. In poetry, it raises complex questions about memory, justice, mercy, and emotional truth. Forgiveness may be possible while forgetting is not; a wound may heal without disappearing. The idiom can appear in religious, familial, romantic, or political contexts, but poets often complicate it by showing the cost of easy reconciliation. It is useful for exploring grace, denial, and moral difficulty.
Example
Example in poetry:
A moral poem may ask whether the heart can truly forgive and forget; In a family lyric, the sisters forgive and forget after years of silence; The phrase can be sincere, ironic, or impossible; A poet might separate the words, showing forgiveness arriving long before forgetting.
Additional Notes
Forgive and forget is a moral formula urging release from resentment, but poetry often complicates it. Forgiveness may be possible while forgetting is not, especially after betrayal, violence, or loss. In poetry, the phrase can support religious reflection, family conflict, reconciliation, or irony. Students should ask whether the speaker uses it sincerely, naively, coercively, or as a social pressure placed upon the injured person.
Also Known As
let go
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