Get cold feet

Idiomatic Phrase
Pronunciation

Understanding ARPABET Pronunciation

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The pronunciation guide uses the ARPABET phonetic system—the same system used in speech recognition and text-to-speech applications.

Vowel Examples:
AE1 = cat, bat
EH1 = bed, head
IY1 = see, me
OW1 = go, boat
UW1 = boot, do
Stress Numbers:
0 = no stress (unstressed)
1 = primary stress (loud)
2 = secondary stress (medium)
Example:
AH0 TH IY1 N AH0
= a-THEE-na (Athena)

The stressed syllable (marked with 1) is pronounced louder and clearer than others.

Quick Definition

To lose courage or become hesitant at the last moment, especially before a commitment.

Detailed Definition
Theatrical or wedding origin—brides or actors freezing backstage. In poetry, it explores fear of intimacy, failure, or change. Sonnets and dramatic monologues use it to heighten tension before pivotal choices (marriage, battle, confession). The somatic metaphor (cold extremities = anxiety) grounds emotion in physiology. Poets contrast it with resolve, making it key in works about risk, vulnerability, or the gap between intention and action—where hesitation becomes its own kind of tragedy or self-protection.
Example
Example in poetry:
Wedding-day poem: “At the altar, he got cold feet—but stayed for love’s sake”; In career verse: “Offer accepted, then cold feet—fear of cities drowned rural roots”; Historical reflection: “Pilgrims got cold feet mid-Atlantic, but winds pushed them onward”; Confessional: “I got cold feet before telling Mom I’m queer—then spoke anyway”.
Additional Notes
Theatrical or wedding origin—brides or actors freezing backstage. In poetry, it explores fear of intimacy, failure, or change. Sonnets and dramatic monologues use it to heighten tension before pivotal choices. The somatic metaphor (cold extremities = anxiety) grounds emotion in physiology. Educators can use it to discuss risk and vulnerability, where hesitation becomes its own kind of tragedy or self-protection in works about commitment, whether marital, artistic, or existential.
Also Known As
Lose nerve Have second thoughts
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