Mend fences

Idiomatic Phrase
Pronunciation

Understanding ARPABET Pronunciation

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The pronunciation guide uses the ARPABET phonetic system—the same system used in speech recognition and text-to-speech applications.

Vowel Examples:
AE1 = cat, bat
EH1 = bed, head
IY1 = see, me
OW1 = go, boat
UW1 = boot, do
Stress Numbers:
0 = no stress (unstressed)
1 = primary stress (loud)
2 = secondary stress (medium)
Example:
AH0 TH IY1 N AH0
= a-THEE-na (Athena)

The stressed syllable (marked with 1) is pronounced louder and clearer than others.

Quick Definition

Mend fences means to restore damaged relationships or reconcile after conflict; poetically, it explores forgiveness, diplomacy, and healing, highlighting efforts to rebuild trust and bridge divisions.

Detailed Definition
Mend fences means to repair damaged relationships, restore trust, or reconcile after disagreement. In poetry, the idiom is particularly rich in rural, domestic, political, and family contexts. Fences mark boundaries, so mending them suggests not the abolition of difference but the restoration of workable separation and neighbourliness. A poet may use it after quarrels, elections, betrayals, or generational conflict. The phrase invites reflection on repair as labour: reconciliation requires tools, time, patience, and willingness on both sides.
Example
Example in poetry:
A reconciliation poem might show two neighbours mending fences after years of silence; In political verse, former enemies mend fences beneath a torn banner; The phrase means to repair damaged relationships; A poet can use it literally in rural imagery and figuratively in human conflict.
Additional Notes
Mend fences means restore strained relationships, especially after quarrels or political conflict. The rural image suggests boundaries repaired rather than abolished. In poetry, it can explore reconciliation, neighbourliness, family tension, diplomacy, and the labour of trust. Students should notice that a fence both separates and protects. Mending it may heal a breach, but it may also preserve distance that is still necessary.
Also Known As
reconcile
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